How to use YOUR body language to increase your attraction ......... Right Now!

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Attract more romance into you life? (photo:TJFormal.com)

Body language is an incredibly powerful factor in the way people see and judge you. Studies have
estimates that 55% of communication is non verbal. Unfortunately, most of the population is totally unaware of the messages they are sending the out to the world.

If you are looking to attract a new man or woman in to your life, it’s especially important to be aware of what your body is saying about you. It also means, even before you open your mouth to speak, the person you are with has already formed an impression of you. In fact, studies

show that the average time it takes for most of us to form an opinion of someone else is less than 30 seconds.

So learning how to read body language is vital to your flirting success. Get is right & you convey a powerful and attractive message, but get it wrong and your actions will tell a completely different story or worse still, will be embarrassingly misunderstood.

Have you ever noticed how some people naturally seem approachable, friendly and FUN, whilst people can appear cold & unapproachable? This article provides you with the most common mistakes people when it comes to their body language.

Make yourself approachable

How can you expect to hook up with that good looking guy or girl if your body doesn’t cry out ... “hey it’s ok to approach me”. This is as simple as remembering two things. Become aware of your posture and remove the barriers.

By simply changing your posture and the way you stand, you can have an immediate effect in the way you are perceived. So stand tall.... you will instantly come across as having a more confident air. People who are seen as confident & open, have an open posture and occupy more physical space.

Lift your head up, this will make you look more alert and allow you a much better view of room. Hey you may even start to notice even more people checking you out. Just remember not to overdo it though; no one likes that superior look after all.

Next make sure there are no physical barriers, such as chairs or tables blocking the path to you. More importantly, be aware of what your arms are doing. Try not to cross your arms, it may well be really comfortable but it’s just another barrier.......

The eyes have it ...

Your eyes are one of your most powerful weapons, when it comes to flirting. They can reflect your interest level as well as giving you valuable feedback on whether your actions are having the desired effect.

Nothing makes people feel more uncomfortable than someone who stares, that uncomfortablly long eye contact can kill the moment quicker than anything.

When you get deep into conversation, simply let your eyes draw trace out a shape of a triangle as you shift your gaze from eye to eye, eye to nose and nose back to the other eye. A strange thing will happen as you become more interested in the person, the tip of the triangle movement of your eyes will move downwards. Just remember not to stare ........

Remember above all else... SMILE

Yup and finally, as corny as this may sounds, please remember to smile. It really does work.... after all flirting is supposed to be FUN .... isn’t it?.

Nothing will make you more approachable to other people than a genuine and inviting smile and reflects the inner you. Just remember these tips and begin notice the difference in how people start to relate to you.